The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.
Her close circle of friends might know about her affair, but she really cannot let anyone else, such as colleagues or her family, know.
Here is a question, if that man knows how to handle his wife in the first place, why would he have a problem in his relationship with his wife?
My advice on dating a married man is that it is no good.
You may realize that you have no claim legally or financially, but you would think there'd be an emotional attachment or bond between you and your lover.
In fact there usually isn't after the affair is over. Even though he has a deep feeling of love for you, he is able to process it in an unemotional way.
Even Katharine Hepburn knew, and accepted, this fact during her long affair with Spencer Tracy.
And don't ever kid yourself on this important point: He is still having sex with his wife, no matter what you may want to believe. Legally, financially and emotionally, you have no claim.
She is not his wife, she is not mother to his children, she is not his parents' daughter-in-law.
They trap your imagination and make you become the product to satisfy their lust.
The truth is, if the married man you are dating can lie to his wife and dating you, how long will it take for him to lie to you and go on a date with someone else?
The love of your life just might be a married man." Being part of any couple can be challenging and unpredictable, as we all know.
But when the man with whom you're involved is part of another couple, someone else's husband, then the challenge and unpredictability can make your life a messy, unhappy waiting game that you will rarely win.
Men and women who goes out of their agreed relationship are simply asking for trouble. I wouldn’t be attracted to a man who would cheat on his wife.