If you’re taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers.If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you’ve figured it out. What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do FOR YOU.Of course, it’s hard for a smart guy to even IMAGINE a situation where his smart mind could HURT his chances for success… So relax, open your smart mind, and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with women… REASON #1: THEY’RE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN’T OR WON’T SEE IT OR ADMIT IT I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT in most situations. They know they’ll be right next time, so they just walk away…And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they’re WRONG? knowing that it won’t be long before they’re right again. more on that later.) Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE’S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good… But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating. Now, if you’ve thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right? How would you even know that it was making things worse?I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail? Now, I don’t want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn’t going to help you very much. When it comes to women and dating, there’s a very good chance that you have MORE than enough “information”.and not worth the time it would take to learn them. They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes…In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don’t even have “social skills” and “be a cool guy that people like” in their “MENTAL MODEL” of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating. and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions… So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women? They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE… Well what if there were a situation in life where the “get more information” strategy actually made things WORSE?
When you start a logical conversation with a woman you’ve just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says “I don’t get it when it comes to women” and putting it on your head.There’s no quick “I’m right” around the next corner to make you feel better. Accepting that you’re wrong is a VERY hard thing for a “smart guy”.It only takes “failing” with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern… Accepting that you’re not only wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a key area of life: WOMEN AND DATING. It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt.If you use the tool you have for the job, you’ll most likely make the situation WORSE.
You know that you’re a little different than other guys.