Are you obsessing about how you could have believed his lies or how he got away with lying for two years?I am not precisely sure what you mean by “obsessed.”It’s never easy to end a relationship with someone you love.I’m so devastated how could I be so stupid for over two years?I was and am despite everything still so in love with him we are no longer talking but how do you make love just go away it may have been a lie to him but it was real to me. He told me everyday how in love with me he was and how we would get married he talked about buying a house together.The only “safe” time to consider dating an individual who is still legally married is when they are nearing the end of a divorce.That might be the only time when you can be sure they are truly ending their marriage.If you have difficulty and still feel like harming yourself I’d strongly consider seeing a therapist.
Often they have no intention of leaving their spouse.Thirty-year-old writer Rachel Bertsche chronicled her adventures trying to find new female friends in her book released December 2011, “MWF Seeking BFF: My Yearlong Search for a New Best Friend.” After she moved to Chicago, she found that making new female friends wasn’t all that easy -- she had to actively go out and find them. Bertsche said that after publishing “MWF Seeking BFF,” lots of women contacted her to share similar experiences: I heard from so many women on their own BFF searches because friends had moved, or their pals got married and had kids and suddenly had less free time, or because they wanted to settle down and their besties were still looking to party all the time. “It can feel awkward to invite someone you hardly know for coffee and I was sure that the women I approached would think I seemed desperate or pathetic,” she told Huff Post blogger Dr. Some very special friendships last forever, but plenty of them run their course. One day I was searching on the internet and I found his wife’s Myspace page from the looks of it she wasn’t in Germany and never had been it talked about living here with her wonderful husband and that they were planning on having another baby this year.I did more digging and found a mound of evidence that she was here the whole time and not only that I believe there were other woman he was with as well.
The took a closer look at three such sites in particular: Social Jane.com, Girl Friend Circles and Girlfriend Social.