This renewed empathy and compassion can help buffer the frustration of your differences at times.The famous Cass Model of Homosexual Identity Development might be a good read for you to gain a better understanding of both your positions on the coming-out continuum.
Conducting a good values clarification with yourself can also assist you with this decision-making.So what do you do when the object of your desire is a gay man who is in the closet about his sexuality? Generally speaking, the prognosis for relationship success tends to be stronger when gay men are of similar “outness” statuses.There tends to be less tension and friction due to the mutual positions they hold with sexual identity comfort.They're the ones that devised the plan to send out phony email messages to their free members (including us).They send out fake emails to their members because they don't have nearly enough real women on their dating service.
There’s never any guarantees, but some differential outness relationships have flourished given the patience and time devoted to getting more in synch. What has your experience been with dating men of the opposite level of outness as yourself?