Psychologists have found that people fall into two groups on the question of what makes for a successful relationship: Group one believes it’s based primarily on finding the “right person” (soulmate); while group two believes in the “work at it consistently” approach to lasting love.The soulmate group believes that choosing the right person helps overcome most of the problems that love throws our way.2 – You feel like your partnership was meant to be as if kissed by destiny.3 – In your communication with each other there is a rapid “knowing” of what each of you means.11 – These special qualities of connection are growing over time. Don’t worry if you don’t feel all 11 of these things happening when you’re with your partner.That’s where the imperfection comes in–either in you or your partner.
5 – When you’re together the world seems like a better place. It’s not necessarily passion or excitement, although that’s there too at times.
He is the best-selling author of Dug Down Deep: Building Your Life on Truths That Last and several books on relationships, including the run-away bestseller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye….
More about Joshua Harris Joshua Harris is senior pastor of Covenant Life in Gaithersburg, Maryland.
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