Whereas as over confidence can often be a turn off in a first message.
Messages using words like will more often than not end up getting deleted immediately.Strange how in the world of dating we have always been told that self confidence is extremely attractive, but the opposite holds true with regards to online dating.Putting yourself down or being a little shy or awkward can come across rather endearing.How are you supposed to progress the relationship if you never “touch-base” by actually speaking to one another? Or, am I just old fashioned (39) and not used to this new aspect of dating? Telling someone where you’re located in a crowded theater or bar. There’s no context, tone, voice, or facial expressions to modify your message. You’re encouraged to misspell, you’re discouraged from saying anything deep or meaningful.Writing flirty or dirty notes to be provocative and naughty. The next thing you know, you’re having a vicious argument that could have been easily avoided in person. Essentially, texting is emailing for the lazy, illiterate and mobile.
Ideally, though, you’ll have some sort of common interests and once you’ve picked up on that then a conversation, or better still, a date could be just around the corner.