Yes, you might care, might treat them well, might even love. It's not a bad thing, per say, but don't count it as a notch on your guitar. Soon found out I could take care of both problems in one place! The good thing about being older is that you don't worry too much about not having six-pack abs or a 10" johnson, so it's just about having fun and making the girl's day a bit brighter.All of these are fine, but don't forget the bottom line of all this. It's not that stylish, and your family doesn't know about it, do they? It's a shadow activity, Now, maybe you can actually find somebody, start a real relationship with one of these women (not drinks and dinner blah blah), see where it goes. That's why I rarely haggle about the tip, and in most cases give it to the provider before the session has even started.
and over the years have dated quite a few and 2 wanted to get married.
I think the average massage parlor girl is between 35-45I was 20 the first time I went to a parlor. Some of the girls were so so but a few were fabulous. Shortly after that and at present most of the Asian parlors I've stopped at are staffed by homely over aged Chinese women. Thing is, being pretth young in these girls eyes, they don't wanna fuck me. So even they understand guys my age shiuldnt be sleeping aaround like this lolol48. I'll go on a tear -5 or 6 in a month and then might take a break for month and months. I just read through the comments between bigsteve and hemilover. The things you called each other are hilarious, since you really don't know each other. Maybe you'd find love in each other's arms (hands). Wife has had health issues and our encounters are few and far in between.
At best I accept a hand job but rarely full service. Since I'm Hispanic myself I click with them real well. I gotta say to both of you that your kidding yourselves when you're arguing about caring for/ or not caring for these women, and how stylish you are as hobbyists. We are sex addicts and it's us that are gonna move on to some other strange. Please, don't think we are cool because we pay for sex. Was having some back problems, so started getting messages. As you said, it's not an inexpensive hobby, but it keeps the juices flowing, so I'll keep at it for a while longer.
You aren't picking them up in a bar or at a Starbucks. I've been pleasantly surprised at how well I've been received doing it that way, and how good the service is.
I'm not saying I get laid more that way, but it does lighten things up.
I had a nasty inner ear infection that slowed me down for a two-month non-visiting time and I recently had a two week hospital stay for a leg infection. So the next time he went, I went with him, he gave the rundown on tips, ect. I'm 41 now.i'm 51, single, started about 10 years ago. I went to see one gal, every week for over a year (was like an affair) except I was paying her each time. Most places r surprised to see me and they always say I'm so young.