This is because generally men and women are not allowed to live with one another until they are married.
Indonesian modern society just tends to turn a blind eye in favour of us foreigners, mainly in places like Bali and Jakarta.
For example the Balinese are very family orientated and if you expect to marry a Balinese man you might just end up playing house with the mother in law.
You must make it a point to be aware of what is expected in the relationship.
By the way I know a travel agency here, that can organize the trip to your country very quickly. if no, then put these words right above your computer, in case you will receive a letter similar like this.
For example, some web sites have over 20.000 profiles, however this is not a reason to find any scam inside this Agency, it only gives you an impression how many profiles you can find on the 'entire' web.
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It also goes without saying remember to be prepared, especially if you are holidaying/working in Bali.