), I make it a point to find the time for doing the things I like and spending the time with people who I care about, and I absolutely refuse to become a salve of my work or other obligations.
I like people who have brains, humor and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some sh-t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).
Ultimately it doesn’t matter: they’re never going to respond to you, so you may as well quit worrying about ’em.
Start filtering for activity level in your searches.
Hell, many of my female friends will delete emails – without reading them – based solely on the because of the sheer volume of mail they receive.
Odds are good that your email got lost in the churn of every other guy out there who was trying to get her attention as well…
But, even a short paragraph alone can communicate that a woman is much smarter and more interesting than most. I encourage playing with children and learning a second language.
Here is an actual example from a profile: “I disapprove of joining cults and cover bands.
She is articulate, funny, and opinionated at the very least.
and suffered the same fate as all the others, consigned to the digital garbage bin.
You need to make a point of standing out from the crowd. If you want to keep her from automatically reaching for the delete button when your message hits her inbox, you need to grab her attention.
You are much better off speaking your mind, as that will significantly increase your chances of finding a reader who will relate and agree with what you say.
So, here is the profile that I simply had to post here.
You may also want to watch out for active profiles by people who don’t actually spend the money to subscribe.