Also, I am not saying that this is the only way women fall in love, or the most common.
In fact, I was so surprised by this that I initially doubted the truth of the stories.
Guys know this and usually when it enters *that* stage, that’s when a guy will probably change his Facebook status.
That is, when it’s so obvious that you are his girlfriend that you’d be able to see it from space.
Now we are five months into the relationship and things have stagnated a little. Our phone calls are getting shorter, we see each other less frequently, and he's been answering my texts sporadically. Obviously this is just a paraphrase; the details of each story vary.
In general the excitement he showed at the outset seems to have faded. I am completely in love with him and don't know if I can handle a break up. But the common thread among them, and the thing that I found so interesting, was that the woman's love grew gradually, over months, often starting as complete indifference.
Again, I am PRIVATE and that is my personal preference – I would be very annoyed to have a girl pushing me to change my status, even if it were a girl I liked very much.